The Four agreements taught me to take nothing personally and if I do, it's my issue. I try to use I statements when I have a conflict with someone else and bring the issue directly to them instead of back stabbing. At the moment I cannot think of a serious issue but yesterday I did have a conflict with a friend who might also be a boss of mine soon. There was a misunderstanding and I was able to let her know how I understood the situation without taking it personally and she could as well. I would be happy to allow you to call her.